It was during morning contemplations before beginning studies that led me to a chat with AI, which can sometimes bring up some interesting rabbit holes to explore. At one point, I expressed the following: “ . . . we are an increasingly individualistic society. The community or care does not exist like it used to, profit and ease are what takes precedence, not the desire to contribute or give; or, at least, to offer far less than they receive, a token to appeal with. This is not to say people do not have the capacity to be more caring and empathetic, and so on, and there are many who go the extra mile to whom we must be forever grateful, but it generally seems most do not see the value in it. We have been taught that it is more important to strive for ourselves first, and to only consider the community if it benefits us (for any number of reasons). This is a very me based society that results in a multitude of problems for individuals and society as a whole.”
The answer I received is worth thinking about, not just in how our society might benefit from some more balance between individualist and collectivist ideals, but also in how we think and manage ourselves and our lives. Growth of a society begins with the individual . . .
Below is Meta AI’s response, along with sources supplied to some material that may be worth a read and consideration:
“You’re hitting on some tough realities about modern North American society. The emphasis on individualism can indeed lead to isolation and a lack of community cohesion. Here are some points to consider ¹ ² ³:
The Dark Side of Individualism: When individualism tips into toxic territory, it can foster a sense of disconnection and narcissism. This can manifest in prioritizing personal interests over collective well-being, leading to social and economic disparities.
Loss of Community Institutions: The decline of traditional community institutions like churches, unions, and community centers has contributed to increased isolation. These institutions once provided a sense of belonging and social responsibility.
The Role of Capitalism: The capitalist system in North America often prioritizes profit and efficiency over social welfare. This can create an environment where people feel pressured to put their own needs above others.
Redefining Community and Care: However, it’s not all doom and gloom. Many people are working to rebuild and redefine what community means in modern society. This includes initiatives like community gardening, volunteer work, and social entrepreneurship.
Some potential solutions include ² ³:
Fostering a Sense of Community: Encouraging people to engage with their local communities through volunteer work, community events, or simply getting to know neighbors can help build social connections.
Promoting Emotional Intelligence and Empathy: Teaching emotional intelligence, empathy, and social skills from a young age can help individuals navigate complex social relationships and build stronger communities.
Rethinking Economic Systems: Exploring alternative economic models that prioritize social welfare and environmental sustainability could help shift the focus from profit to people and planet.
Valuing Interdependence: Recognizing the value of interdependence and mutual support can help create a more balanced approach to individualism and community.
Ultimately, finding a balance between individual freedom and collective responsibility is key to creating a more compassionate and connected society.”
Sources
Individualism’s Role in America - The Texas Orator
American Individualism, Rightly Understood - The Heritage Foundation
Our Laser-Like Focus on Individualism Is Destroying Our Communities
A Parting Thought
We cannot rely completely on others to make the changes, we need to be doing our part by making the changes in ourselves as well. We must contribute to the change we need.
Thank you for sharing in this morning’s contemplations. I wish you a wonderful Friday and weekend!



That's amazing. I can see that AI draws upon what people are saying, and I'm glad that others are talking about this issue in a meaningful way.